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In the last two MUSELETTERS I shared about a special offering we’ve been carefully developing behind the scenes. Today, I’m excited to finally open the curtain and share the first pioneering case study that has emerged from this work. The story of Jonathan, Nina, and Mae is not just personal...

While traveling through Thailand with my 12-year-old son, we kept running into the same confronting image: older white men sitting in bars, flanked by young Thai women. The cliché was everywhere — and he was disturbed. “Why would such a young, beautiful woman want to have sex with that man?”...

Being able to create life through life is pure magic. Two beings merge. Another being gets sparked into cosmic existence. For many couples, though, receiving a soul and carrying it through the first twelve weeks of pregnancy comes with challenges, heartache, and heartbreak. Thirteen years ago, my very first pregnancy...

The world outside doesn’t always feel like the safest place to explore new parts of yourself. When you start tuning into your body, your boundaries, your truth—it can feel like trying to whisper in the middle of a storm. That’s why we created The Practice and the Saturday Specials: real, embodied spaces where...

Many of you have asked: What happens in a plant ceremony? Working with sacred plant medicine feels, to me, like midwifing a birth—only that what’s being born is a deeper version of yourself. Each ceremony is a unique and mysterious unfolding. You never quite know what will emerge—and that’s precisely the...

The Slow Sex Movement is all about creating a new culture of relating. Most people that join our events and that work one on one with me are grown up adults that want to de-condition themselves by de-constructing their patterns and re-writing their script. The older we are when we...

We can experience various blockages around intimacy and sexuality. A common one among men is premature ejaculation. Recently, I worked with a client—and I share his story here with his permission—who struggled intensely with this issue. The moment he penetrated a woman, he would almost immediately ejaculate. Although he enjoyed...

Wherever we come from, whatever we have experienced – at the end it is about being able to look into each others eyes, connect to the heart and look for compassion. I have stopped watching news a long time ago. It overwhelms me and leaves me with a sense of...

It is a thin line between being a great leader and becoming a guru. I have a part that subconsciously wants to put my teachers on a pedestals. That part wants to look up to someone in order to hand over responsibility and feel safe. Most of us didnt’t have...

Dear one, The one thing that is certain in life is that we have to die. For years, I have spent building relationships with my inner parts. However, building a relationship with death and the pain that comes with loosing a loved is one is still tender and scary. In...